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Dear Women Who Don’t Love Giving Blow Jobs

Let’s be honest, some women just do not enjoy giving blow jobs, full stop. And you know what, that’s ok, because sucking co*k isn’t every woman’s cup of tea, so to speak. But then there’s the women who think they don’t enjoy it, but actually just don’t really know what to do … and so they’re not feeling confident with their blow job skills. Dear women who don’t love giving blow jobs, this article is for you.

Here’s my top 8 tips on how to worship co*k with your mouth and give your man the blow job of his dreams.

#1 TAKE IT SLOW

Believe it or not, men enjoy slow sensual foreplay just as much as women. So, when it comes to blow jobs, remember it’s not a race to the finish line … begin by taking it super slow and make him yearn for your mouth.

Kiss his entire body … enjoy teasing his neck, lips, chest, stomach & inner thighs with your lips, tongue and kisses … making your way slowly to the base of his cock and balls.

Make him yearn for it … you’ll notice the sounds he’s making will increase & his body may begin to move as he begins to subtly (or not so subtly) beg to have his cock in your mouth. Be aware of his feedback – take note of the signs he gives you with his body movements, the way he moves, the way he’s breathing, the sounds he makes … the way he responds to how you touch, kiss and lick him.

Make him wait. Allow yourself to enjoy every little kiss and touch … ultimately what you are doing is worshipping his cock, so don’t be afraid to look at it and really take it all in visually before you take it all in physically.

#2 LICK HIM FROM THE BASE OF HIS SHAFT TO THE TIP

Now that you’ve made him beg for it, begin licking him from the bottom of the shaft to the tip. Take note: blow jobs are far from just bobbing up and down his entire penis in your mouth … there’s so much more you can do to increase the pleasure of the experience, and licking him is one way you can do that. Remember to begin slowly, I guarantee your man will enjoy watching and feeling you taste every. little. inch. of him. Don’t forget to gently caress his balls with your hands, lips and tongue too.

#3 USE YOUR HANDS

Place your hands at the base of his shaft & slowly massage up and down while your mouth is sucking and licking the head of his penis. Circle and suck on the head, not forgetting to give the frenulum attention too … flick the tip of your tongue on this sensitive area and notice if this increases his pleasure response. It’s ok to keep your hands on his penis the entire time (especially if your man is well endowed) … use one hand to work the bottom of his shaft while your mouth is working from the top down. If you’re tuned into your man you’ll notice what he likes and doesn’t like … remember to tune into his pleasure responses … or simply ask him what feels good and what he wants more of. Communication is key.

#4 GIVE HIM A VIEW TO REMEMBER

Under no circumstance should you hide under the blanket (unless it’s the middle of winter, and then you’re excused). Men love to see their woman worshipping their cock. So, next time you give a blow job, give your man a view to remember. I personally recommend allowing him to see your naked body and ass moving sensually as you lick, kiss and suck on him … these visuals alone are enough to send any man into ecstatic pleasure.

#5 LUBE IT UP, BABY!

Aside from minor pre-cum, penis’s don’t lube themselves up. So, I recommend staying super hydrated and using the natural lubrication in your mouth to lube up his cock. Feel free to gracefully spit on him and make sure it’s really wet .. this with ensure it feels silky smooth for him and you. Alternatively you can use a lubricant that you feel comfortable tasting and licking.

#6 MAKE SURE YOUR LIPS ARE SOFT AS SILK

Silky soft lips are the key ingredient to amazing blow jobs. So, do whatever you need to do to have smooth lips. I recommend exfoliating your lips with a lip exfoliant, or brushing them gently with your toothbrush each morning to get rid of dry skin. And then of course keep them super hydrated with a natural lip balm all day long. Oh yeah and drink lots of water … that way your lips will stay naturally hydrated and smooth day in, day out.

#7 USE SOUND

When you’re truly enjoying giving a blow job you’ll notice it’s not just him that’s feeling turned on, it’s you too. And when you’re feeling turned on you will naturally make sound. So, don’t be afraid to let out sound while giving him head. Firstly, it will create subtle vibrations on his penis that feel good, and secondly it’s a sign that you love what you’re doing, which will turn him on even more.

#8 LOVE LOVE, LOVE IT

If you love giving your man a blow job he will naturally pick up on your vibe and enjoy it more than ever. Note: If you’re giving the blow job out of obligation, don’t bother giving it. Remember, your energy speaks louder than your actions. Suck his cock with all your heart. Moan and let your lover see the love and desire in your eyes. Look at him, look at his cock … worship him. Oh, and HAVE FUN!

Juliet Allen is a Sexologist, Sexuality Coach, Tantra Practitioner and author.  With a reputation for her bold and straight-to-the-point manner, Juliet facilitates 1:1 coaching sessions, educative workshops, and transformative retreats. Juliet’s purpose is to empower men and women to embrace their sexuality & transform their sex and relationships.

www.juliet-allen.com

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