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“Great sex is not a pleasant soak in the tub, with the scented candle burning. Great sex is more like a bomb exploding inside your right mind.” ~ Amy Bloom
We all want to know the secrets to great sex, right? I know I do. Fact is the secrets I’m about to reveal aren’t so secret after all, in fact they’re pretty damn simple … and yet most of us aren’t aware of them. So, here they are – breath, sound & movement. Yep, simple as that.
Consciously using your breath during sex can significantly increase pleasure & create deeper orgasmic experiences. When we breathe deep into our bodies we become in tune with ourselves and our lover … plus breathing actively moves the sexual energy throughout our entire body. Next time you’re making love, become aware of your breathing and aim to sync your breathing with your lover.
Allowing sound to flow from you whilst having sex will increase the activation of your sex centre and allow you to experience deeper pleasure. Sound is a powerful way to access deep emotion that arises whilst making love … don’t be afraid to be loud (or soft, whatever feels good)! The sounds of love-making are beautiful, natural and amazing … they’re also a sign of deep pleasure & ecstatic sex.
You’d think we’d all be moving if we are having sex? Yes, to a certain extent we are, but a lot of us actually don’t move much as all (aka ‘the starfish’). When we move our body and allow pleasure to flow through it we increase the flow of sexual energy in our body and naturally sound will flow easier too. Free your body during sex & move in a way that feels good for you … remember there are no rights and wrongs when it comes to movement during love making.
Juliet Allen is a Sexologist, Sexuality Coach, Tantra Practitioner and author. With a reputation for her bold and straight-to-the-point manner, Juliet facilitates 1:1 coaching sessions, educative workshops, and transformative retreats. Juliet’s purpose is to empower men and women to embrace their sexuality & transform their sex and relationships.